Take Charge of Your Personal Power
It's hard to set boundaries and take back your personal power when you have people in your life that dis-empower you. Many people give way more than they receive. They do a million things for others because they believe that just being who they are isn't enough to cause others to love them. So they give and give and give - rarely saying no - and rarely getting back any appreciation for all they do.
Guess what, there are people all over the place that will take and take and take without giving anything back. They almost prey on the givers.
But you can't take charge of your personal power if you feel undeserving. You can't take charge if you feel you have to "do" anything to deserve or receive love and appreciation from others.
You have to love and accept yourself first, before others can. You have to feel good about who you are. You have to know who you are and what you desire. And you have to know you deserve to receive the good things in life.
So this week, you get to make a list. A list of what you deserve in your life.
This list has no boundaries or limits, except one: You must believe you deserve what you are writing down. I know that you deserve to be healthy, happy, have fulfilling relationships, have financial freedom and security, and are living your life with purpose and are having fun doing it all.
But the reality is, it doesn’t matter what I know or believe. What you believe is the most important thing.
Post that list where you will see it everyday. If somebody sees your list and questions you about it…remember last week’s message: The moment you defend yourself is the moment you show your weakness.
Have the weekend you deserve!
Andrew Sanderbeck – Leaving the Costa Romantica
